That first drive is somewhat of an eye opener. I felt the same tightness in the car as soon as I backed out of my drive. Then drove round a bit and felt like I could feel every tiny ripple in the road! Just thought "oh no, what have I done?!" But after making a few adjustments, I started to realise their potential and why people like them.
There's a much different feel to the car. So much more is communicated to the driver.
Give it time. Let them settle down a bit. Mine are still pretty new, with only about a hundred k's on them by the previous owner before his car got defected and he removed them. I've added a couple hundred on them since fitting. Ironically, they're back in the same car now, as I ended up buying his car from him as well a couple months later
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The setting my wife & I liked was 9/7 Fr/R and that gives us a good ride over the really crappy roads around here. I've read that 9/6 is a popular street setting for comfort. I find going much lower than that starts getting too bouncy & uncomfortable, not properly controlled. On our setting, we find there's the occasional nasty "compression" bumps that really jar and I get a nasty look from my wife, but all in all, we're finding them very comfortable. Hopefully my wife stays happy with them
As you said, the first few corners after they're fitted are like "...this is awesome!!" ...
Hope you enjoy them ...