Need some advice please from those on here in the know of BP 1.8 turbo setup's

Recently purchased a NB track car and looking to turbo it and develop the car into a decent TimeAttack/track day toy.
It has the below mods already.
forged built engine Supertech 9.1 pistons/Argo h-beam rods/fully balanced. (Pistons are 2 sizes over std bore)
Built head. upgrade 264 cams/hd springs/over sized valves
Toda cam gears
Adaptronic ecu
ACT lightweight flywheel/Exedy HD button clutch
SE 6spd box
Kazz 1.5way LSD 4.1
Alloy radiator
water re-route
SE brakes with braided lines/slotted rotors/Hawk blue pads
Yellowspeed comp coilovers/ front and rear swaybars.
6UL 15x8 wheels
So im looking to start gathering components to turbocharge the car. Im also trying to do it on a moderate budget otherwise I would have just paid the $3700 for the AVO kit and be done with it, and Id like to put something together myself.
I want to push the car pretty hard on track so ideally looking at making approx 280+ rwhp.
So from what research I found its very common for aftermarket manifolds to crack hence most go with cast log style for strength and long service life. I purchased a new oem SE manifold from the US for $250 lastnight thinking atleast it will be strong and reliable, even if it does slightly reduce my peak hp figure.
Is there a aftermarket bolt-on stainless dump and front pipe kit available ? should I go 2.5' or 3' ?
With turbocharger options id like to keep it as responsive as possible so I was looking at either the Garrett GT2560R 320hp or GT2860R 350hp disco potato. Then I noticed there is a new model in the GTX range, GTX2860R thats basically a newly updated spec of the disco potato with billet wheel offering more response and rated at a higher 400hp. what can anyone recommend here ?
Intercooler and pipework kit available ?
Being a track car doing 6-7lap stints on semi slicks/full slicks what have most found to be the safe limit in hp before really starting to hurt gearbox's ?
Is there any big benefit in running larger 16" or 17" rims over the 15" ?
Regarding aero, it has a GV style front bar and a ebay GT 3d carbon wing, notsure if this will do the job or I should buy a APR GT200 wing instead ?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated !!
Cheers !