Girlfriends at work

Kit is a TD04 Greddy/Mitsu turbo
ETD manifold
turbo tony downpipe
Issue 1 is the Turbo to Manifold.
The studs seem to be M10x1.5, they seem to fit into the manifold, but are too round for the turbo bottom plate.
That appears to be almost M9, M8 seem to have a bit of wiggle room.
Also the studs shoulders are too long.
Issue 2 is the turbo exhaust to downpipe.
The studs are the right diameter here, but the shoulders are so long that the nut at its tightest still has almost a centimetre gap between the downpipe and the turbo.
Issue 3 is i have a banjo connection on the oil feed line, but no banjo bolt.
Now i have found i require a M10X1.25 banjo bolt, but i am unsure of the diameter of the feed hole in the bolt to make sure the restriction is correct.
Would 1.5mm sound right?
Does anyone know someone in Sydney that i could take this to, that could help sort out the fasteners?
Any help much appreciated.